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The Wedding Party

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Jaclyn Rubin Heather Bernstein Rajiv Manglani Robert Sable Elana Levine Simon Nadulek Barbara Franklin Matthew Franklin Alisha Hess-Haber Anastasia Vahaviolos Shanna and Julian





Julian's Attendants

Simon Nadulek

Barbara Franklin

Matthew Franklin

Elana Levine

Rajiv Manglani





Shanna's Attendants

Yael Bar-Giora

Jaclyn Rubin

Robert Sable

Anastasia Vahaviolos

Alisha Hess-Haber

Heather Bernstein






Yael Bar-Giora

Shanna's sister Yael is twice as energetic, three times as loud, and ten times as adorable as Shanna herself! From the moment Shanna fearfully carried one-week-old Yael up the stairs of their house, she realized what a precious gift a sister can be! Since then, the two have done their best to express their love without getting on one another's nerves too much. Although she is twelve and a half years younger than her soon-to-be-wed sister, Yael will join her father in the honor of escorting Shanna down the aisle.


Heather Bernstein

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Shanna and Heather met as pledges in the Theta Alpha chapter of Chi Omega, and the following year they roomed together in the sorority house. The two became fast friends, sharing clothes, secrets, and four newly purple walls. Shanna and her little sister, Susan Engleson, adopted Heather into their lineage as a "middle sister" until she found a little sister of her own. These days, Heather and Shanna don't see much of each other (southern California is a bit far away for an after-work cocktail), but they look forward to a joyful reunion this summer!


Barbara Franklin

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Julian has always tried to keep an eye on his younger sister but, despite their relative ages, Barbara often takes charge of her brother. Whether it is buying him clothes or trying to get him drunk, Barb is quite serious about her role as the protective and fun-loving sister. After serving Julian copious amounts of alcohol when she visited him for Purim, and again when he visited her at Binghamton University, no one would be surprised to see Barbara show up at the bachelor party with a bottle for her brother. Oddly enough, Shanna doesn't recall ever seeing Barbara drunk...


Matthew Franklin

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They have the shared experience of dealing with the overprotective (but loving) fathers of their girlfriends during the dreaded pre-proposal "talks." Julian's words of reassurance for Matt, and Matt's later advice for Julian, helped get both of these men through the experience. Really, was it so bad after all? And aren't these two beautiful women worth it all?


Alisha Hess-Haber

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These two have known each other since their freshman year at Cornell, when Shanna used to cross West Campus in her bathrobe to wake Alisha up each Shabbat morning. Now Shanna has a much shorter trip, usually to the living room of her New York apartment, where Alisha has made herself at home many a weekend. Of course, roles seem to have reversed a bit, and Alisha tends to do most of the waking these days...


Elana Levine

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Elana and Julian first met at the Young Israel of Cornell, and became fast friends. They always found things to do together--but since they were both car-less, getting around was quite a challenge. Despite Elana's charisma and near-perfect pout, it was nearly impossible to find a ride to the movies. One day these friends discovered the recently-invented taxi and took their social lives into their own hands...and they have been unstoppable since.


Rajiv Manglani

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Rajiv is quite the technology aficionado, so it is not surprising that he and Julian became friends--although no one is quite sure why they had to move to Brookline to do so. They both grew up in Brooklyn, NY, only 5 minutes away from each other! Each attended a "specialized high school" in New York City and prestigious universities in the northeast. Their paths finally crossed at the Young Israel of Brookline. Rajiv got married in March of 2002. He and his wife Miriam built a wedding website of their own. Rajiv is fully qualified to be both a groomsman and technology buddy.


Simon Nadulek

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Julian has been especially close with his uncle Simon for as long as he can remember. Simon introduced his nephew to bicycling, a sport Julian continued through college and beyond. He is always willing to lend an ear and offer sound advice—like his suggestion that Julian throw practicality to the wind and propose to Shanna at possibly the most stressful time of her life. No one could be more well-suited to the duty and honor of being Julian's best man.


Jaclyn Rubin

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Shanna was a bit lonely in sixth grade, having recently moved to Merrick. Noticing Shanna's broken arm during recess one day, Jaclyn (also new in town) introduced herself and the two shared broken arm stories. Ever inventive, Shanna taught her new friend "Israeli Tic-Tac-Toe," a completely bogus game that involved drawing random lines in the mud. So began a friendship that included joint-editorship of the high school newspaper, complementary Billy Joel obsessions, and ever-changing answering machine messages. Sometime around high school graduation, Shanna confessed that she had made up Israeli Tic-Tac-Toe. Jaclyn must have forgiven her, since she agreed to put up with more mishugas as a bridesmaid!


Robert Sable

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How to describe this love-hate relationship? None of Shanna's other friends can insult her quite as well as Bobby, perhaps because few of them have known her quite as long. These two have been locked in a verbal duel since seventh grade! However, no one is quite as skilled as Bobby at pulling Shanna through an all-nighter (or helping her procrastinate her way into one). Of course, their shared love of 80's music and a late-night drive from Jones Beach to Dark City form the true backbone of this friendship.



Anastasia Vahaviolos

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Ironically enough, these two poets became friends in a tenth-grade science research class. On the few days that Stacy and Shanna had lunch breaks, they would head across the JFK parking lot to Stacy's house for toaster-oven pizzas—always with freshly-grated mozzarella, of course. Though they excelled in the sciences, both women abandoned their medical pursuits in college to become English majors. Although they have taken quite diverse life paths, Shanna and Anastasia remain close friends at heart.




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